Happy Christmas from Growing Old Grace-fully

Contemporary Ethiopian nativity icon. Source here.

We wish a Happy Christmas to all from Growing Old Grace-fully.

This Christmas, we give thanks for the hope born in Bethlehem – the baby Jesus and a light that shines at every stage of life, even if we cannot always see it, when our eyes are turned towards the darkness that too often falls across our troubled world.

Christ’s birth in the stable shows that hope comes from the humblest and most unexpected places. We must always be open to that hope and be prepared to see it and pray that we too will hear the angels and see the star.

As we celebrate the joy of Christ’s coming among us, we honour the wisdom, faith, and love of older people, whose long lives witness to God’s faithfulness through the years.

This is also the end of the Jubilee Year of ‘Pilgrims of Hope’.

The last major official events of the 2025 Jubilee will be the closing of Rome’s four Holy Doors, accompanied by the solemn closing rites and the celebration of Mass.

The first to close will be the Holy Door of the Basilica of Saint Mary Major on December 25th at 6:00 pm.

This will be followed by the Basilica of St. John Lateran on December 27th at 11:00 am.

On December 28th, at 10:00 am, the Holy Door of the Basilica of St. Paul Outside the Walls will be closed.

The last Holy Door to close will be that of St. Peter’s Basilica on January 6th at 9:30 am, with a Closure Rite and Mass presided over by Pope Leo XIV. The Holy Year officially concludes with the celebrations of the Feast of the Epiphany.

We pray more than ever for hope in these final days of this special Jubilee year.

May the peace of the Christ Child fill your hearts and homes, and may hope, kindness, and grace accompany us all into the year ahead.

Some prayers for Christmas

We thought we knew where to find you;
we hardly needed a start to guide the way,
just perseverance and common sense;
why do you hide yourself away from the powerful
and join the refugees and outcasts,
calling us to follow you there.

Wise God, give us your wisdom

We thought we had laid you safe in a manger;
we wrapped you in the thickest sentiment we could find,
and stressed how long ago you came to us;
why do you break upon us in our daily life
with messages of peace and goodwill
demanding that we do something about it?

Just and righteous God, give us justice and righteousness

So where else would we expect to find you
but in the ordinary places with the faithful people
turning the world to your purpose through them.
Bring us to that manger, to that true rejoicing,
Which will bring wisdom, justice and righteousness alive in us

Stephen Orchard
Based on Luke 2. v1-20
From Janet Morley Bread for Tomorrow

God reached out
and
with the lightest
of touch
set the world aflame
with his adoration.

He so loved
each
And every one,
that he gave
his most Beloved Son

In order that we,
that is
you
and me
and all humankind
might be born anew.

Not only on Earth,
but
in Heaven, too,
and cascading
through all Creation,
Is the cradled- Christ Eucharist.

Amen.

Susan Hardwick from Shine on Star of Bethlehem (complied by Geoffrey Duncan)

Loving God,
as we welcome the birth of your Son, Jesus Christ,
we come before you in these worrying and uncertain times.
In the quiet of the manger, grant us hope;
in the light of Christ, grant us peace;
and in your abiding love, strengthen our trust in you.

As the Christ Child comes among us,
unite young and old in compassion and care,
and help us to walk together with courage and kindness.
We ask this through Christ our Lord.
Amen.

Advent Prayers 2025 – in the Jubilee Year of Hope

As we enter this holy season of Advent, we reflect as people who have travelled many years and gathered much wisdom along the way. This Advent is in the Catholic Church’s Jubilee Year, with us invited as Pilgrims of Hope to remain anchored in the hope of Jesus Christ and to do so especially in this season of hopeful waiting.  

Later life brings its own blessings—time for reflection, deeper gratitude, and often a clearer sense of what truly matters—but it can also bring worries. Many of us look at the troubling state of our world, the divisions between people, and the growing cost-of-living pressures and often feel a heaviness that is hard to shake. Questions about the future surface more easily now – our own and the future of our loved ones and our world –  and our prayers may reflect these fears and troubles as we turn anxiously to God for help.

Yet Advent invites us to lift our eyes. It reminds us that God draws near not in times of ease, but precisely in times of uncertainty. Into a troubled world, into an occupied land, into a humble stable, Jesus Christ was born. His coming—then and now—brings light that no darkness can overcome.

As we journey through these precious weeks, towards the end of the Jubilee Year of Hope,  may we find comfort in the promise of Emmanuel, “God with us.” May the hope of Christ’s birth renew our courage, steady our hearts, and assure us that even in later life—and perhaps especially then—God is still at work, guiding us toward peace, joy, and a love that endures.

God of Hope

Rachel McCarthy/CAFOD

Advent Prayer by Henri Nouwen

Lord Jesus, Master of both the light and the darkness,
send your Holy Spirit upon our preparations for Christmas.
We who have so much to do seek quiet spaces to hear your voice each day.We who are anxious over many things look forward to your coming among us.
We who are blessed in so many ways long for the complete joy of your kingdom.
We whose hearts are heavy seek the joy of your presence.
We are your people,
walking in darkness,
yet seeking the light.
To you we say, “Come Lord Jesus!”

Amen

The Jubilee Prayer

Amen

Online Event – Finding Hope in Community and Parish Life

Growing Old Grace-fully‘s has been hosting a series of six online events in 2024, on a variety of different themes exploring later life.

The sixth and final of these events is on Finding Hope in Community and Parish Life on Tuesday 19th November. This afternoon session will start at 2.30pm and finish at 3.30pm.

This final session of the series evokes the hopefulness of Advent, which is just around the corner and also looks forward to the Jubilee Year of Pilgrims of Hope in 2025 as announced by Pope Francis.

The session will involve some examples of people who have found hope in parish life or a Christian community group; a chance to share in smaller groups people’s stories of hope and joy; and prayers and reflections.

To attend, reserve a free ticket on Eventbrite here.  

A Zoom link will be circulated to all ticket holders in advance of the event.